Apart from the skill of service, what essential skills should I focus on?
The most important skill is getting started and letting things work themselves out, which boils down to confidence built by proving you can handle uncertainty. Alongside that, agency, autonomy, a lower need for certainty, accountability, and consistency are crucial.
He says identifying problems is key; business skills are essentially effectiveness skills—being good at business means you're effective at applying yourself to points of highest leverage. He recommends the book *The Goal* by Eli Goldratt and the Farnam Street website for effective thinking, first‑principles reasoning, and understanding leverage intuitively.
Psychology and sales are important, but the meta skill that really matters is consistency—being able to show up and do the work day after day. If someone has zero natural talent but a perfect consistency score, they’ll out‑perform someone with great psychology and sales but poor consistency. To win the ‘school games’ you need distribution, fund affiliates, and paid traffic, which you’re not currently doing. I’m not sure if I even want to win those games anymore; I’ve been inconsistent lately due to headaches and wildfire smoke, and I’m questioning whether I should keep pushing or let someone else take the win. The bottom line is that consistency beats raw skill, and without the supporting traffic and affiliate structures, even strong psychology and sales won’t get you far.
Mental clarity doesn’t come naturally to anyone; I didn’t have a lot of anxiety or self‑doubt to work through, though I do get impostor syndrome now and then. I don’t rely on any formal mental frameworks off the top of my head, but a useful habit is to zoom out and ask yourself, ‘If I went all‑in on this, how far could I go?’ That reframes the stakes from ‘everything is on the line’ to a curiosity‑driven experiment. Most of my decisions have been shaped by curiosity and reacting to new things rather than by a grand strategy. Besides that mindset shift, I recommend books like Shane Parrish’s *The Great Mental Models* and the Farnam Street collection, which teach tools such as first‑principles thinking and other models you can apply to any problem.
I've started many YouTube channels, e-commerce stores, service agencies, and PPC businesses - most of them failed and made me no money, leaving me feeling underperforming. The real differentiator isn't hyper-optimized skills; it's the ability to stay consistent over long periods. After about age 23, that's the skill worth optimizing. It's not a deep philosophical trait; it's a skill like learning ads or managing clients. To build it, spend disproportionate time on it, use books and practices, and create accountability - tell friends, family, partners, or staff about your daily goals so there are consequences for skipping. I've done this exclusively for the last few years: just commitment and daily showing up. As long as you don't give up, you'll eventually win.