Should I send a Loom video in the first cold message without asking, or ask first? Also, do Loom videos hurt email deliverability?
I think there are a couple of things to clarify. First, the idea that a Loom video almost always lands in spam is not true. Sending links in email at larger volumes does decrease deliverability and can negatively impact your ability to reach the inbox, but it doesn't mean every email goes to spam; deliverability might drop from, say, 95% to around 75%. Some emails will still land in spam, and if your Loom videos are poor, recipients may mark you as spam, which can hurt your sender reputation over time. However, it's not an all-or-nothing situation. Think of deliverability as a gradient. You can move toward the delivery side by improving practices—using multiple mailboxes, low sending volumes, perfect DNS records (DMARC, DKIM, etc.), good subject lines, and valuable content. Adding a link pushes you toward the no-delivery side, but strong deliverability practices can pull you back. Regarding your specific tactic: I don't send a 'can I send you a quick two-minute video?' preamble anymore. That approach used to work, but now it's common and doesn't stand out. Instead, I record the Loom video ahead of time, make it highly valuable and customized, and then distribute it across multiple channels (email, Facebook, Instagram, X, LinkedIn, etc.). If each platform gives roughly a 20% chance of being seen, the combined probability of being seen on at least one channel is about 1-(0.8)^5 ≈ 67%. Multiplying that by a conservative deliverability estimate of 75% gives roughly a 50% chance the video is seen. If the video is really good and hyper-customized, maybe one out of two recipients replies, yielding around a 25% response rate. The bottom line: there's no definitive rule from email providers about links causing spam; they approximate based on signals. Use common sense, test the approach, and see what works for you.