At what point did you leave a secure job to rely solely on yourself for income, and how would you approach that decision knowing the pros and cons? What were your requirements before making that leap?
You know what? I'm really happy you asked this question because I'm thinking of recording a whole video about it. Let me run you through my thought process. For anybody that doesn't know, I went to university for behavioral neuroscience, and my whole idea was to become a doctor. I spent a few years in various labs. Let me call this journey: I spent a few years in various labs. So a big chunk of my life was actually spent working with rats, believe it or not. I performed a ton of animal research with rats. My first or second year, I was an undergraduate research assistant; my job was basically to tend to these rats doing circadian rhythm experiments. I'd go in at 7 or 8:00 p.m., swap out their feeding tables, give them new food, refill their water, and we also had to play with the rats a certain amount each day. That was part of my job, so I would let them crawl all over me and snuggle them. It was really fun. The really sad thing is when you form an emotional bond to one of these cute critters and then see where they go at the end—they're dying, right? The whole point is you do these experiments, then chop their brains off and do a bunch of studies. Anyway, I did a bunch of that, then got more into academia and thought maybe I'd do research or stay on the doctor path, which would be medical research. I remember one shocking moment in my lab when I looked at my PI at the time—a brilliant, super intelligent guy. He was studying something I won't get into for doxxing reasons, but essentially he was working his ass off 12–14 hour days, begging for grant funding, and I was helping him write a grant application. It hit me: this guy works really hard and has been in school a very long time; I wonder how much money he makes. So I went through a moment: when you're a PI at my university, you can see everybody's salaries. I don't know if it's revenue transparency or income transparency, but they do it. That was pretty sweet. I went on that database, saw how much money he was making, and thought, 'You serious?' He had a bachelor's, then a master's, then a PhD, then a postdoc, then a second postdoc. He was all over the place—best schools on planet Earth, MIT style. I won't name the specific ones, but like the best universities on Earth. This guy was hustling his ass up, making like 80k a year. Keep in mind when I say 80k, I'm talking CAD. To be abundantly clear, CAD to USD is 0.7, so 80k CAD is about 56k USD. So this guy worked his entire life, making 56k USD while still putting in 12‑hour days. That's when it hit me: I have big dreams of doing cool research, spending all this time with animals, seeing a future laid out, but what would my life actually look like? Do I really just want to be relegated to begging for grant funding on my hands and knees? Probably not. So yeah, that's a little bit about my journey there. Um—I then spent the next year basically working my ass off to get what was called a research award: $4,500 for a three‑month research period. That $4,500 would be awarded for three months of work. I spent about two months applying, prepping interviews, trying to knock it out of the park, studying interview strategies and tactics, and I was so stressed out. I applied, got it, and was awarded $4,500. I did the math: working 30‑ to 40‑hour weeks at the lab for three months is 160 hours a month times three, 4,800 hours total. I was making under $10 an hour. Any way I looked at it, if I were to do any academic thing, I wasn't going to make much money. I ran through all the stuff, thought about it, and asked myself: Is this really what I want to do? Then I thought a little about medicine because my family is from Eastern Europe and the immigrant dream is that my son becomes a doctor, makes a ton of money, and secures the family. I thought a lot about that and started doing the math on how much doctors make. In Canada, the average family physician—where you open your own clinic or work in someone else's clinic, basically a business—has a median of about $220,000 a year CAD. So 220k CAD times 0.7 equals about 154k USD. That's a